This post is dedicated to the best parents.
Today marks their 30th wedding anniversary. Over the weekend, my sisters and I treated them to family pictures, (something my mom’s been wanting to do FOREVER!), and dinner at one of our favorite family restaurants. It was amazing to spend quality time with one another – the hustle and bustle of a busy fall makes it impossible to plan events that all family members can attend; it was so special to have some time together.
My parents have shown me never to take myself too seriously. My mom and dad have the one of the best relationships, because they are constantly making one another laugh. I’m sure being married for thirty years does that to a relationship, but I feel like they have it down to an art. They’ve always had such a healthy balance – they appreciate their differences and they share their common joys.
I know my parents have had their hardships. They have been through times when things weren’t easy; however, growing up, they ALWAYS put us girls first. We always had the newest of the newest – clothing trends, electronics, (although, were strict on WHEN we got our first cellphones), sporting attire, etc… the list could go on.
As a child, you’re oblivious to adult issues; bills, a consistent paycheck, feeding your family… Your biggest concern is where you are going to sleepover during upcoming weekend, or how you are going to get the newest Abercrombie & Fitch sweatshirt. If you were like me, you just assumed getting new shoes or new jeans was a given – things should be something that you just get from your parents, without even thinking of what might be coming in and out that month. My sisters and I were not raised as snobs, but my parents did always make it happen. We really were given whatever we wanted. Now, being an adult, I realized what my parents sacrificed for us, and sacrificed things just to make sure we were happy. It brings tears to my eyes knowing how much they cared for our happiness.
They have taught me so much about love, happiness, and what the word family means. I could not ask for better role models and a better support system.
So, here’s to you, mom and dad – cheers to 30 mores years! <3 you both so much!
xox