I was born today, 28 years ago.
Another year has passed. I’ve gained another number in age. I am now closer to 30.
Last night I was with my best girlfriends, drank a little white wine & giggled a lot. I had a constant smile and it was one the best nights.
Today has been filled with more love than I could imagine. My instagram feed was flooded with picture ‘shout outs’ from friends & the kindest words. Birthdays are such a special day.
As I’ve gotten older, presents are not needed; special words in a card are appreciated more than they have ever been, and a nice phone call or text goes such a long way. The littlest, most thoughtful gesture makes me tear up, and a student bringing me a can of mountain dew makes my day.
It’s really the same appreciation I have most days, but birthdays there’s just more. Much more.
I have learned to be grateful for every year that passes. I am happy I’ve been able to breathe another fresh breath of this wonderful life. I didn’t do everything on my list of to-dos before I’m 28, but it’s okay. I have grown so much this past year, from an emotional stand point, and just as a person – as we all should. I know there will be more crossed off my life to-dos, and I will continue to grow, learn about myself, have my ups and downs, and I can’t wait.
My grandpa takes the cake, so far, with the best birthday wish. My grandma NEVER let an occasion pass without sending a card. Like, ever. Today, when I got the mail, I saw a handwritten envelope, addressed to me, with their return address.
I lost it.
In a good way, though. Yes, I cried a little because I miss her, still, everyday, but I cried because my grandpa was carrying on her tradition. I was hesitant to open the envelope, because I was afraid it would make me more sad; however, it had the opposite effect. My grandpa’s little note in the card made me laugh so hard. He’s the best grandpa there is, and leave it to him to completely make my day.
I gave him a phone call after I caught my breath and thanked him for the card, and I think he was happier than I was! Tomorrow night I’m going to my parents for a birthday dinner, and he is coming to make some fish. I’m excited to spend some time with my family and eat his fresh catch.
Looking back, at my 27th year, I’m grateful for a handful of things – (there’s more, but for time-sake, we’re keeping it short and sweet) –
1. the love of my husband. He does more for my mind then he’ll ever realize.
2. ace – I could get emotional thinking about how much my little guy has gotten me through times of darkness. He is my best friend.
3. my family – from my uncle giving me flowers for my front pots, to my sister asking me to read a paper, to my mom’s daily phone calls, to my aunt reading my blog; my family is such an amazing support system, and I am so grateful for every single one of them.
4. the amazing moments with my girlfriends. Again, these women can get me through anything, at any time. They truly are my second family.
5. bon iver. This may seem like a silly thing to be grateful for, but literally cranking a bon iver song and soaking in the calmness of their words has done more for my mind than anything else. I’m just disappointed I didn’t realize this earlier.
So, now I sit with little Ace, listening to music, and waiting for Tony to come home. I’m looking forward to our night together at The Melting Pot downtown & to see what 28th year brings! Cheers!
xo